Ride Along: Sarah (Pt 2)

Up to this point, in 10 years’ time, Sarai was moved from her home and her family, her husband has a covenant with God to be the father of nations and all the while she is barren, her husband disowns her in the presence of kings to save his own neck and receives a monetary gain while she is being passed around for her beauty.  Then, God reestablishes his covenant with Abram to be the father of nations.

In Genesis 16 Sarai is so convinced that God is done with her.  She takes herself out of her own story and gives Hagar, her servant, to her husband Abram as a wife. Sarai benches herself in Genesis 16: “Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had borne him no children. She had a female Egyptian servant whose name was Hagar.  And Sarai said to Abram, ‘Behold now, the Lord has prevented me from bearing children. Go in to my servant: it may be that I shall obtain children by her.’”

Abram listens to his wife Sarai, takes Hagar as his wife, she becomes pregnant and they have a son name Ishmael. Hagar begins to look down at Sarai.  I don’t think Sarai could get further into the margins in her own story.  Her slave becomes pregnant with her husband’s baby in hopes of furthering the family line.

In Genesis 17, God changes Abram’s name to Abraham and God establishes a covenant with Abraham to make him a father of nations. God tells Abraham that this will be a covenant of circumcision.  This is the third time that God is establishing a covenant with Abraham, but the first time that Sarai is mentioned.  The first thing God does is he changes her name from Sarai to Sarah and says, “I will bless her and moreover, I will give you a son by her.”  In verse 21 of chapter 17 God says, “But I will establish my covenant with Isaac, whom Sarah shall bear to you at this time next year.”

Then, in Genesis 18, the Lord visited Abraham and Abraham asked if he could prepare the Lord’s messengers a meal.  The Lord agrees, Abraham runs off to arrange the meal preparations. The Lord asked where Sarah was. Abraham says, “She is in the tent.” Then, the Lord said, “I will surely return to you about this time next year, and Sarah your wife shall have a son.”  Sarah is finally in the story.  She is slowly moving out of the margins and unto the main page as she listens behind the tent door.

Genesis 18:11 -12 says, “Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in years. The way of women had ceased to be with Sarah.  So Sarah laughed to herself, saying, "After I am worn out, and my lord is old, shall I have pleasure?"

Sarah laughs at the promise because she can’t see herself being used by God. She is sitting on the bench and not running the race at all.    

In Genesis 20, Abraham and Sarah find themselves in another situation where Abraham is asking Sarah to lie about being his wife so Abraham will be spared.  This takes place after the LORD told BOTH of them that she was going to become pregnant with the promise of their first and only son, Isaac. 

Genesis 21 brings us back to our main text. Abraham is 100 and Sarah is 90 and then their son Isaac is born.  Sarah moved from bareness to fertility. She moved from the margins to a position of significance and prominence.

Sarah would say, “Just when you’re done.  Just when you have called it quits and you think that the promise God spoke won’t happen this side of eternity.  Just when you thought your identity was grounded in your inabilities – God gives you a new name and establishes is covenant through you. It doesn’t matter your faults or inabilities.  It doesn’t matter if you have been hurt, wounded, or rejected.  It doesn’t matter if you don’t add up to the world’s standards: all that doesn’t matter because God isn’t done with you; even when you think you are done and you have done all you can do.  Even when you have waited and waited and waited for God to move on your behalf and he still doesn’t move when you think he should – God is not done with you, even if you’re done with Him.   

Ride Along: Sarah (Pt 1)

I grew up playing sports.  Being the youngest of four with two older brothers, you can bet that we had some fierce competitions.  I love to win, but more importantly, I love playing the game.  It’s never fun to lose, but its like pouring salt in the wound when your team loses and you didn’t even get to play in the game OR you were benched during the game.  I took myself out of the game by my actions or attitude, but most of the time, it was both.

This whole series revolves around the scripture in Hebrews 12:1 – 3, where the writer of Hebrews is encouraging us to run the race of life with endurance and every week we have been taking lessons from the lives of those who have gone before us, so that we can be encouraged to continue running the race of life.  In our ride along with Sarah, she would tell us – God’s not done with you.  

We first meet Sarah, who is called Sarai in the book of Genesis chapter 11, verses 29 and 30. Sarai has little to no value by the world’s standard.  The biggest thing a wife brought to the table was the ability to bear children, especially males to carry on the father’s line. More so, one of God’s first commandments to Adam and Eve in Genesis 2:28 is “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it.”

Simply put, Abram wanted to have kids; the world expected Sarai to have kids, and God said to have kids and lots of them, but Sarai was unable.  For the majority of Abraham and Sarah’s story, we find Sarah barren, in the margins, and mostly forgotten. 

In Genesis 12 - Abram is called by the Lord to move from the place of his birth to the land of Canaan. God tells Abram “To your offspring I will give this land…”

In the second half of Genesis 12, there is a famine in the land and Abram and Sarai travel to Egypt.  Before they arrive in Egypt, Abram tells Sarai, “You are really beautiful and the Egyptians will want to kill me so they can have you, so when we get there tell them you are my sister.” Sarai does what is asked of her and so, Pharaoh takes Sarai as his wife.  Abram is blessed with sheep, oxen, male donkeys, male servants, female servants, female donkeys and camels, God sends a plague (A little foreshadowing), Pharaoh gives Sarai back to Abram and sends them on their way.

Genesis 13 and 14 Lot, Abram and Sarai’s nephew, separates from them because their riches and flocks are too great for the land to support them.  After some time, Lot was taken captive in the middle of the war, so Abram takes 318 of his trained men to go rescue Lot. We read this and cheer on Abram for his warrior mentality and for rescuing Lot, but we fail to realize that Abram left Sarai, his wife, all alone. The estranged male nephew has more family value than the barren wife. In Genesis 15, God enters into a covenant with Abram; promising him as many children as the stars in the sky.